Jealousy commonly comes out when you have two or more children in the family and it particularly arises because of some factors that lead them to be jealous. This negative feeling can be avoided as long as you know how to deal with you kids and you have your own ways and means so that your children won’t feel this kind of feeling. You have to be sensitive when it comes to your child’s feeling. You must pay attention to what could make them better and what could not make them feel that jealousy. As parents, you have to be considerate and balance with what you do and how you deal with each child, don’t wait until that such feeling could ruin your relationship, so if you don’t have much idea on how to deal with children who gets jealous here are some ways to help you out.
Spoiling you child is not good. if you pamper them too much, and another member comes out, when you put attention to that child too much he or she would feel insecure, and this feeling could depress child and he would feel small of his or herself.
Don’t be a demanding parent
As much as you want to control your child, you should be careful when it comes to set strict policy when inside the house without giving them explanation because this could affect child’s social growth development and his means of associating with others too. So don’t be too demanding if your child creates mistakes or faults in the family.
Never compare each one of your children, comparing each other can lead one child to lack of self-esteem as he or she grows up. He could detach from your other child and their relationship can be at stake too.
Don’t create unhealthy activities
Don’t ever create competition which leads to comparison of both children. This does not give a good impression to your child’s ability and it could lead her to develop more. He or she will be shy and lack of confidence.
Be equal to rights. Don’t let your child feel that he or she is more talented than the other one. Be rational.
Who would want their children to get mad at each other and create grudges just because of jealousy? Parents must not forget that if you let your child feel this, you would probably cause them to think of negative thoughts and actions, this can create detachment to both sibling’s feelings with each other, that instead that they care for each other, they love each other, comfort and enjoy each other’s company, you have just made them feel unworthy, out of love and loner, this effects can lead to a child to do something bad and seeks more attention to other things and not to you anymore. You actually put gap with your relationship. So stop this jealousy before it gets worse.